Winning and losing are two sides of the same coin which when tossed has the probability of getting the either. It is ones perspective and attitude how he celebrates with success and how he deals with the failures and the setbacks. Looking into the general human nature, a victory instills a deep sense of euphoria while a failure leads to disappointment and sadness. Success should not be such that makes you lazy and over confident and failure should be a cause of prolonged disappointment. Both are worse. Success should create better avenues and inspire you to reach better heights and step ahead for further goals. Failure should energize you to recover and perform the best again. Such an attitude ultimately defeats the ‘defeat’.
Efforts and achievements are not static neither have any limits. Success should be such that it boosts you for further success in more fields. Moreover, when you encounter a failure, accept it as a positive feedback. Try to analyze the whole phase of the work you did and infer out where you lacked. Failure should not result in exasperation. Anger does nothing but hampers you and your thoughts. So better have a positive approach even during bad phases. So, let the failure become your strength not a setback. Learn to fight it not to regret and stay on it.
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Success in mind gives success in action.
Monday, October 5, 2009
By Silence You Conceal Your Imperfections and Come to Know Others
Nature is one of the finest and perfect architects in the universe. Each and every thing of its creation fits in place, built for a particular purpose and has a reason behind it
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Have you ever given a thought to the symmetry of our body that God gave us?
We have a pair of ears, a pair of eyes, a pair of hands but a single mouth. Why?
By this the almighty wants that what we hear, what we see, what we perform should be twice what we speak. Your talks should be half times your actions that are why there is a single tongue and two hands. The basic idea here is, action reflects the potential more than words. Listen to everybody, watch out many things but extract the best out of it that is required for you. Do not just waste the time in futile gossips and boasting about one or the other thing. It is ones efforts that provide the results not the advertisements. One can mould the way of speech by words but cannot ease the way of success unless action is done. Speak wherever it is relevant.
It has been rightly said by Bernard Shaw, “By silence I conceal my imperfections and come to know others.” Great men have always been silent in their views and great at their work. That was the real secret behind their success as they believed more in doing than in advertising their skills. Work always speaks your success but words only are not sufficient to work for success. By silence you are able to introspect yourself and find out your shortcomings without giving a hint to others. It makes you to understand the mistakes and rectify them. Your accomplishments speaks your success not your words. Use the words where necessary else let your hands show your potential.
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Have you ever given a thought to the symmetry of our body that God gave us?
We have a pair of ears, a pair of eyes, a pair of hands but a single mouth. Why?
By this the almighty wants that what we hear, what we see, what we perform should be twice what we speak. Your talks should be half times your actions that are why there is a single tongue and two hands. The basic idea here is, action reflects the potential more than words. Listen to everybody, watch out many things but extract the best out of it that is required for you. Do not just waste the time in futile gossips and boasting about one or the other thing. It is ones efforts that provide the results not the advertisements. One can mould the way of speech by words but cannot ease the way of success unless action is done. Speak wherever it is relevant.
It has been rightly said by Bernard Shaw, “By silence I conceal my imperfections and come to know others.” Great men have always been silent in their views and great at their work. That was the real secret behind their success as they believed more in doing than in advertising their skills. Work always speaks your success but words only are not sufficient to work for success. By silence you are able to introspect yourself and find out your shortcomings without giving a hint to others. It makes you to understand the mistakes and rectify them. Your accomplishments speaks your success not your words. Use the words where necessary else let your hands show your potential.
Saturday, October 3, 2009
Winner Vs Loser
1.A winner finds opportunity in everything. A loser finds excuses in everything.
2.A winner commits a mistake and accepts it saying: ‘I was wrong’. A loser says: ‘It was not my fault.’
3.A winner credits his good luck for winning even though it wasn’t luck and was because of immense hard work. A loser credits his bad luck for losing, but it wasn’t luck.
4.A winner goes through the problem. A loser goes around the problem.
5.A winner says he is sorry by making up for it. A loser says he is sorry but he does the same thing next time.
6.A winner respects those who are superior to him and tries to learn from them. A loser resents those who are superior to him and tries to find the fault.
7.A winner says: ‘There ought to be a better way of doing it.’ A loser says: ‘Why change it? That’s the way it is always been done.’
8.A winner is responsible for more than his job. A loser says: ‘I only work here.’
Inculcate the features, characteristics and the type of attitude marked in bold. This will surely make you a winner in every aspect of life.
2.A winner commits a mistake and accepts it saying: ‘I was wrong’. A loser says: ‘It was not my fault.’
3.A winner credits his good luck for winning even though it wasn’t luck and was because of immense hard work. A loser credits his bad luck for losing, but it wasn’t luck.
4.A winner goes through the problem. A loser goes around the problem.
5.A winner says he is sorry by making up for it. A loser says he is sorry but he does the same thing next time.
6.A winner respects those who are superior to him and tries to learn from them. A loser resents those who are superior to him and tries to find the fault.
7.A winner says: ‘There ought to be a better way of doing it.’ A loser says: ‘Why change it? That’s the way it is always been done.’
8.A winner is responsible for more than his job. A loser says: ‘I only work here.’
Inculcate the features, characteristics and the type of attitude marked in bold. This will surely make you a winner in every aspect of life.
To be Wise, Think and Study. To be Successful Execute.
Setting and defining the goals are the initial steps towards the journey of success. A wise man properly plans them and gives them a systematic shape. But in order to ultimately make the plan successful one must put hands into it. Action to your plans is indispensable for reaching the targeted destination. Dreams come true only when they are emulsified with action and execution of proper plans. Sitting idle and waiting for the things to happen on their own is just a moor's thought.A target cannot be achieved by mere advertisements and conversations but what is actually required are the actions garnished with mighty determination and will power.
Action fills the gap between the goal defined and the achievement of the goal. It acts as the vehicle that takes you to your ultimate destination. Implementation of the right action at right time with sincere attitude makes your attempt a fruitful one and increments your step a little closer to success. Whatever you do, it should be a calculative step keeping in mind the possible consequences. Think, analyze and then act. It is better to work less than to take blind shots. Success is not a shortcut.
Action fills the gap between the goal defined and the achievement of the goal. It acts as the vehicle that takes you to your ultimate destination. Implementation of the right action at right time with sincere attitude makes your attempt a fruitful one and increments your step a little closer to success. Whatever you do, it should be a calculative step keeping in mind the possible consequences. Think, analyze and then act. It is better to work less than to take blind shots. Success is not a shortcut.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Try to Fail, But Never Fail to Try
Thomas Alva Edison one of the famous inventors ever. While working on his remarkable invention that is electric bulb failed ten thousand times before he could actually succeed in accomplishing his task fully. He might have given up and stopped trying because of these innumerable failures, but his perseverance was strong enough that kept him going and going. He did not call these ten thousand failures as his failures instead he called that he had found ten thousand different ways that could not work. The moral here we get is:
try---fail----try again----if again failed----try again----at last success is yours
One should never fail to try. Bounce back from your failures, gather together all your energy and set to work as if you are more energised. Keep that flame of never dying spirit burning inside that trying and trying doesn't make you restless but makes your nerves strong enough to achieve the target. It has been rightly said that, "The success is not in never falling but rising every time we fall." No defeats do not define success completely unless one has the grit to rise up from the defeat and try again and strive for success.
Let me cite a list of defeats of a famous personality:
That is a list of defeats suffered by Abraham Lincoln, who is known for his fair character and leadership in our history. These are defeats not failures as Lincoln kept on trying. One can judge from every defeat that he was ready to give yet another attempt. he did not lay arms in from of any defeat how small or how big it was. He tried and tried and at last:
try---fail----try again----if again failed----try again----at last success is yours
One should never fail to try. Bounce back from your failures, gather together all your energy and set to work as if you are more energised. Keep that flame of never dying spirit burning inside that trying and trying doesn't make you restless but makes your nerves strong enough to achieve the target. It has been rightly said that, "The success is not in never falling but rising every time we fall." No defeats do not define success completely unless one has the grit to rise up from the defeat and try again and strive for success.
Let me cite a list of defeats of a famous personality:
- Failed in business at the age of 22
- Ran for legislature-defeated at the age of 23
- Again failed in business at the age of 24
- Sweetheart died at the age of 26
- Had a nervous breakdown at the age of 27
- Defeated for Speaker at the age of 29
- Defeated for Elector at the age o 31
- Defeated for Congress at the age of 34
- Defeated for Senate at the age of 46
- Defeated for Vice-President at the age of 47
- Defeated for Senate at the age of 49
That is a list of defeats suffered by Abraham Lincoln, who is known for his fair character and leadership in our history. These are defeats not failures as Lincoln kept on trying. One can judge from every defeat that he was ready to give yet another attempt. he did not lay arms in from of any defeat how small or how big it was. He tried and tried and at last:
- He was elected as the President of United States at the age of 51
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